Diva, UK's infamous Dungeon Mistress, Foot Goddess, Femdom Hypnoteuse & slave Owner

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Terms

When you enter my domain, my dungeon, you agree to my rules and style of domination. I am the Mistress and you will know your place in my presence.

Diva

I am always the Dominant, therefore my needs, requirements and desires come before yours. That doesn't mean your needs aren't important - there are opportunities to express yourself at appropriate times - just that as a dominant, mine come before yours. I also only participate in activities that interest and stimulate me. I am not seduced by financial incentive in areas that I have little or no interest in and I am not impressed by those who try to haggle. It is your job to amuse, entertain and stimulate me, so don't come to me with a list of demands and expectations; this is my life and you'll have to ensure your interests match mine. Even when I laugh, am enjoying myself or seem 'nice' I am always the dominant.

I work only with respectful, enthusiastic and willing natured adults. You need to have a genuine interest in these activities (submission, masochism, foot worship or D/s hypnotism) and be of an open mind. You will want to submit to me. If you are not prepared to make an effort for me to find you interesting, exciting and challenging then move over so that the next genuine person can. Time with me is all about an exchange, your submission for my domination therefore you will participate and be active in our experiences.

If you are not serious do not waste my time. I have spent a lot of time and effort in putting my website together and I did so for a reason. I want you to read it before contacting me! I do not have time to answer questions repeatedly, though I am happy to answer questions not answered on my site by email. Do not expect me to have a lot of time on the phone especially if you haven't familiarised yourself with my website.

My services are not for free. Agreeing to session with a dominatrix is not a necessity, it is a luxury, and I have no guilt in charging a fee. I provide a premium service just like any other premium profession. It is not my issue if my fee is beyond your means. I have worked hard and continue to do so to gain valuable knowledge and learn new skills. My fees are fair and not negotiable. For those that are looking for freebies, consider this website your free taster into my lifestyle.

You are responsible for your romantic and financial situation. I offer a professional D/s exchange only - I am not interested to manage your life or to manage or know your financial situation. I want you to enjoy your fantasy with me but I am not your girlfriend or accountant and you are ultimately responsible for your own everyday life. And by return my private life is of no interest to you and you will respect my privacy always.

I am not your therapist, you are responsible for your mental stability. Alternative lifestyles and all the activities within can be considered fun, theraputic and/or balancing through expression, communication and enjoyment. However, like anything in life, alternative lifestyle activities or the lifestyle itself must be entered into with responsibility, moderation and practiced in a consensual, healthy and sane fashion. If you find yourself desiring or obssessing over any form of alternative lifestyle to the point where it effects your daily career, social or personal functions, I urge you to seek professional consultation.

I do not provide sexual services of a traditional nature, ever. Sexual energy and feelings are a driving force behind my sessions but be sure, training with me will never include any type of personal service as I engage with your sexual mind, by the use of power exchange. Therefore do not show your lack of intelligence by asking for such services.

You are not genuine because you do it for the money. There are many professions I could have pursued that are certainly easier, more socially acceptable and a lot more financially rewarding than becoming a self employed professional dominant. I chose to do this because I love what I do and feel it important to defend a different point of view. It has not always been easy and I have struggled some months to continue. In fact I strongly believe that if anyone stepped into my shoes for a month I doubt very much that person would continue to do so unless they loved this lifestyle, with all the hard work and crap that comes with this profession. I believe in what I do and I know I make a difference, especially to my devotees. So do I really care about people that have such negative opinions? No.

Testimonials

There are too many people that say nice things about me to put all their comments on this page, but click on my testimonials page to view some quotes.

FAQ's

What experience do you have? I have always engaged in BDSM activities before I even knew there was a terminology, scene, and community for my preferred way of lifestyle. I discovered the fetish scene in the mid 1990s and I have experienced BDSM from both sides of the dynamic. Because of this I feel I have the insight to understand and appreciate the wide variety of needs of a submissive and enjoy giving what is so desperately wanted and needed. I have also gained experience with several reputable dominas from USA and UK at the beginning of turning professional.
I want to submit but can't leave with markings, would I still be able to have a session with you? Yes, it is perfectly possible to play and not leave marks. Domination is not just about pain - it encompasses many scenarios and skills.
I don't wish to engage in power exchange, would I be able to have a session with you? Yes, it is perfectly possible to play utilising only my SM or bondage skills. If you are a bottom or masochist you'll find I derive just as much enjoyment delivering what you want as long as this is clearly negotiated before the training session.
How do I address you? Calling me Mistress is a privilege that needs to be earned, therefore unless I request otherwise, whilst you are earning the right to call me Mistress you may address me as Mistress Diva during training sessions.
Can I have sex with you please? No. Sexual energy and feelings are a driving force behind many sessions with a professional dominant. A session with me will not include any type of traditional sexual service as I engage with your sexual mind, by the use of power exchange and SM play. Think about your motivation, if you're motivated by the orgasm more than the control, you may not receive a session you were expecting!
I know I can't have sex but will I be able to ejaculate? Perhaps, if I grant you permission. You should understand that this is a reward and not an expectation. Your motivation to see me should be for control not orgasm release.
What are your hard limits? Anything that is not safe, sane or consensual for both of us. I personally will not engage in scat play or intimate body worship, and if you are unfamiliar to me I will not consider water-sports or anal penetration.
Can I come and be your live-in slave? At this time I don't have any requirements for any additional live-in slaves however you may qualify to enter into my consensual slavery contract which combines your desire to serve and your social realities of life.
I have called you several times, but the phone isn't being answered? If you withhold your number, I am unlikely to answer. If you are not withholding your number, it is because I am unavailable at that time - please call me back later. Please do not send me text messages as I will not be able to respond to them.
Can I buy you a gift? My trainees and admirers often ask if they may offer me a personal gift and such gestures always bring a smile to my face. I do not expect it so please don't feel obligated. However, if you would like to surprise me, gifts will be gratefully accepted and will be appreciated.

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