Diva, UK's infamous Dungeon Mistress, Foot Goddess, Femdom Hypnoteuse & slave Owner

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A slave is extraordinary, rare — and most often confused until they discover their slave spirit heart. Most slaves wander through life feeling unfulfilled — as if they have a "dark hole" in their spirit — a hole that can be temporarily filled with an abundance of sex, work, addictive behavior or other whole-life-consuming factors.

Master Steve

Domination is not limited to a dungeon. The dynamics of domination and submission is all around us and I like to challenge slaves in our everyday environments. For some slaves fixed periods of time in a dungeon is limiting and unfulfilling to their needs and as a slave Owner I feel the same. Being contractually owned and exclusive to my will allows me to expand my creativity and develop slaves with unconventional methods not available in a dungeon setting. Domination can be seen as incredibly subtle but felt more rewarding and satisfying as this is realistically the closest a slave can get to their fantasy without sacrificing their existing life commitments.

The sole purpose in this slave's, or maid's, life is to liberate his Mistress from the mundane. This slave will be self-motivated and diligent, and not in need of constant supervision. Domestic training will include household chores, slave Friday activities and personal attention as needed. Your reward for good service will be play time with me.

While the desire to serve me, the Mistress, is the primary focus, there will be a heavier emphasis on the proper etiquette of the Femdom-sub relationship. In addition to the slave's domestic duties, intense training will be given in the arts of pleasing the Mistress: extensive foot worship, pedicure, correct presentation of slave in physical and verbal training, pain threshold and endurance training, self control and pro-active training. Your training will make you excel in your servitude and you will be happier for it.

If this is your preferred style of submission, please read my extensive writings before contacting me.

I expect my submissives and slaves to be my opposite, but equal and complementary to my intelligence and ethos. I'm only interested in you wanting to complement the dynamics of a real Femdom relationship. As my slave you need to have basic primary needs that will be met through servitude and ownership. As such you will have the primary basic instincts of wanting to feel owned, of surrendering, serving and pleasing. And then you will enjoy the other aspects that BDSM has to offer. Your submission will be multi-faceted and will go beyond your basic sexuality and at times it will feel more spiritual in essence. This lifestyle will involve a balance between many dichotomous aspects; intimacy and distance; pleasure and pain; routines/rituals and unpredictability and many more.

My lifestyle is a fantasy world for many, but it's very, very real for those that live it with me. My style of domination will make you feel as if it's the most natural thing in the world. You will want to adore me and in return I will make you feel wanted. You will be intelligent and intuitive enough to be able to understand you can be a friend, companion, confidante, servant and ultimately my slave.

Being a Submissive is a state of mind, being a Slave is a state of being.

Diva

The basic instinct of submission is something that cannot be taught or trained; it will come from within you and therefore, in my opinion, is either there or not. Similarly, submission is not so much about a series of acts that are done, but rather a surrender which is what you will find most fulfilling.

If the submission is part of your nature as domination is a part of mine, then your submission is switched on with a look or a word, and will be ever-present, as opposed to some other partnerships which rely on raised voices, whips, contraptions and defined times. Within my current mindset everything comes from and resides within, and subtlety is a wonderful part of D/s for me where things do not always have to be overly explicit in nature all of the time, where there is always an underlying understanding, at home or in public. Even mundane tasks will affect you on many levels, and the strangest thing perhaps is that a lot of the time your feelings inside will not be sexualised. Slavery and ownership for me is mostly about a feeling of belonging, a permanent journey into a world that feels more right and fulfilling.

Submission is an aspect of your psyche that cannot be repressed forever, in the same sense as Dominance is for me. To be unable to express this side of yourself, in my mind, is an awful waste of a damn good slave.

My preference to live this lifestyle means I enjoy the company of slaves in my everyday environment. Slavery for me is not a bedroom game but a lifestyle choice. Submission to me includes all aspects of life; cleaning, cooking, running errands, anticipating needs, and doing what ever is required to make my life easier. To serving my breakfast, preparing my bath, cleaning my home, chauffeuring me to appointments and domestic shopping are just some of the duties my contractual slaves are tasked with. Slaves can be given roles from personal assistant, chauffeur, beautician, cook, gardener or maid. As a Lifestyle Dominant, those who enter my elite inner circle have the unique opportunity to be initially contractually collared to me for 101 days and then, if I am happy with your slavery, automatically renewed for each term for 303 days.

My lifestyle slaves are not the same as collared slaves or submissives I receive in my chambers for fixed periods of time. A lifestyle slave finds limited time in dungeon space unfulfilling to their needs. While a collared slave is my slave while he wears my collar in my company, my lifestyle slaves are in effect 'contractually owned', and exclusive to me. They are at my beck and call to do my bidding when I want it, within pre-agreed defined limits. The power exchange is constant, but can sometimes be extremely subtle and for many this style is unquestionably more rewarding and satisfying as this is invariably the closest a slave can get to the real thing without sacrificing existing life commitments.

How do you know if this path is right for you? To become one of my lifestyle slaves, the primary needs of a prospective slave are of service, pleasing, worshiping and being owned to the Mistress. To find contentedness in making the daily chores of life easier to bear for the Mistress. The slave's happiness is derived from seeing the Mistress happy, therefore it's a matter of attitude. Through this attitude a slave will cultivate self-awareness and under tutelage of me, awareness of my needs and wishes sometimes described as a sort of sixth sense to anticipate my needs.

The natural order of female domination is obtained when the minds of men are captured and then it becomes quite easy to control their body.

Diva Sept 2004

Before being accepted into my lifestyle a slave will need to satisfy me that they have the determination, drive and suitability for this style of training. This is an opportunity for both myself and the prospective lifestyle slave to ensure completion and continuation of the contract. It does not please me to have a slave 'drop out' of my slave training therefore a series of various types of appointments will be required before the invitation to pursue this contractual training procedure.

The slave will be made aware of the expectations and needs towards the Mistress with an opportunity to ask questions and express any concerns but primarily this time is for the slave to familiarise themselves with the working of my mind. Depending on the type of role undertaken in my service, you may be required to submit a Resumé of Service with references as well as proof of legal qualification (a driving license if chauffeuring, for example, will be expected from the slave).

Contractual Documentation

The initial contract will be for 101 days which will automatically renew itself for an additional 303 days until I, the Mistress, decide to terminate the slave's service. If the slave wishes to leave contractual service with me, the slave has the opportunity to do so on the 101st day only of each term.

The contractual documentation within my lifestyle consist of a Consensual Slavery Contract, a Negotiated Boundaries Contract, an Activity Checklist, a Slave Rules Charter and Slave Datasheet. You will also be registered on the IRS (International Registrar of Slaves) to me.

Lifestyle Training

You've dreamed the dream. Now live the reality.

Diva

I'm often asked what actually happens with the development of the slave. While each slave is individual and I protect my privacy fiercely you will not know exactly what's in store until you are living it with me.

I expect my slaves to complete a slave journal regularly so I am always aware of what state of mind my possession is in. I consider this a serious responsibility to care for the welfare of my property and have found journals to be the most effective in providing me with this information.

While my slaves are my property, they are not doormats (not unless I want them to be to be used and abused without direction), but instead highly intelligent and good company. I therefore like to stretch my slaves with ad-hoc tasks of written training assignments for stimulating discussion and growth.

Physical Preparations, body positions and control, voice training and commands with specific forms of address are other areas that I continually train to ensure I am proud to have each slave in my stable and for them to be the best of who they are. Every slave has a particular specialist skill and I look for that in each slave's training.

Depending on the length of service I will expect certain ownership symbols to be worn as a display of ownership to me. Lifetime slaves will receive permanent markings, such as a brand. Of course it would take many years to reach that level of slavery so I have no intention of burning your ass so don't even think I will consider that privilege for a slave lightly.

As devotees of mine you will periodically be required to serve me at public events and specific play parties. You will be trained to a high standard before I will allow you out as my slave escort. I am very much a believer of my slaves displaying the reflection of my dominance and expect impeccable servitude whilst in public.

The slave's mission statement is to SERVE, PLEASE and OBEY.
The slave does not speak unless asked to do so or unless it has a justified question.
The slave's view is always lowered unless given free sight.
With each question, punishment or instruction the slave replies with, 'Yes or Thank you Mistress'.
The slave moves in the following positions:
- Present Position. As basic with head on floor hands in front, thumbs touching
- Basic Kneel Position. On the knees, feet together, legs spread, head lowered, arms behind the back, the torso straight.
- Rise Position. Standing on the knees, legs spread, feet together, head lowered, torso straight, and the hands behind the back.
- Stand Position. Standing, legs together, arms behind the back, head lowered, torso straight, the hands thereby remain always behind the back and the head lowered.
The slave functions as a piece of furniture for me. If I express a wish to sit, the slave offers its body immediately.
If I instruct the slave not to speak, this speech prohibition applies and the slave should only reply with, 'I apologise, however my Mistress has forbidden me to speak'.
Mistress does not accept, ' Sorry Mistress' as a valid response for incompetence, inadequacy or other failure on the part of the slave!
If I require a cigarette, then the slave ensures I have a light and offers an ashtray. If trained the slave kneels and offers its mouth for this function.
If I am busy the slave is required to be attentive and not interupt me.
The slave always walks behind me but attentive to open doors, take my coat, etc.
The slave treats other dominas with comparable respect.
The slave always greets me by resuming the present position and waits until I order to kiss my feet.
The slave keeps all toys hygienically clean.
The slave carries my bags.
The slave is to be efficient in its service.
The slave offers small tokens of appreciation with each attendance in my company.
The slave is always punctual.
The slave completes all instructions.

A journal entry from slave ~m, a slave in it's infancy in the consensual slavery contract:

I kneel humbly and respectfully before You. I am so grateful that You are considering me for the position of subservience under Your control. All that is really required of me is to grovel and submit to You, I'm sure. i am a bit nervous, as You are aware, but i am sure Your confidence and authority will soon clear that up.

Fear must be replaced by trust before I can release my will and submission needs to be inspired and drawn out of me so that is habitually on the surface, so that I live to please You. I can't stop thinking about You and about this opportunity to serve at Your feet and experience the depth of complete control that You desire. I look forward to being in a mutually fulfilling Mistress-slave relationship and be attuned to Your needs and satisfy Your whims. I feel you are the right Lady to submit to completely.

I woke up at five this morning and couldn't go back to sleep because I was consumed with thoughts of You. I suppose it is natural to feel tormented by a Mistress' silence or scarcity of words. It certainly compels my undivided attention. I feel nothing but respect and awe for You. I promise to adore and look after You. I just want You to know that my search for a Mistress is serious and with you I find a Lady of beauty, power and intelligence, I have the most reverent feelings to offer Her. In joyous and loving servility, slave ~m

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