Diva, UK's infamous Dungeon Mistress, Foot Goddess, Femdom Hypnoteuse & slave Owner

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Philosophy

Reality doesn't impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls.

Anais Nin

For me BDSM is primarily two things. It's a physical skill to enhance sexual desires with the dynamic of power exchange, and secondly it's a spiritual craving and fulfils psychological needs. A method of expression enabling exploration and development of fantasies in a safe, sane and consensual (SSC) environment. I am also a strong believer that BDSM is a craft to be enjoyed in its raw state; a method of expression and alternative beauty.

I utilise the dynamics of power exchange to heighten sensations of pleasure and pain. I allow you to experience fantasies alongside my beliefs that within current social climates are either not accepted, frowned upon and in extreme cases thought of as an illness needing to be 'cured'. To me these opinions identify fears in those that simply do not understand. To those that do understand and are willing to explore this unique and intense energy, you will need to have a strong sense of self and an abundance of enthusiasm and imagination. And then you can enjoy a growth in your self-development and an inner peace that will fulfill and satisfy.

BDSM falls under the category of 'alternative lifestyles' which encompasses many variations of self expression and what one person defines as acceptable may be another's hard limit. Personal boundaries are a necessity but I believe freedom of expression should never be restricted as long as the SSC code is respected.

To those that have the advantage of being able to follow this path, the journey is both exciting and exhilarating ... but to those that are unable to find an outlet to express themselves, this lack can be both frustrating and demoralising, and may leave one with a personal sense of being incomplete.

What makes this lifestyle so challenging and unique, in my experience, are the many diverse characters all individual in their needs, expression outlets and fantasies. You may call yourself submissive, slave, masochist, fetishist, rubberist or cross dresser, to name a few, but these labels only give a rough guide of where you feel you belong. And that's where I can guide you - to question who you are, and to be comfortable with where you are going, because I know that when you reach your Nirvana your life will feel whole. How do I know that? Quite simply because I have found mine.

As a dominant female I enjoy the lifestyle of female superiority. Don't confuse my belief means that I don't respect or hate men. On the contrary, I enjoy men and believe the dynamics of domination and submission is about mutual respect, as one dynamic cannot live without the other. As a professional I endorse the Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC) code at all times.

I am cruelty personified in beauty where physical desire clashes with mental stimulus. I am a dominant for the psychologically advanced. Female domination encompasses many types of activities and I specialise in the art of domination and the skills of SM that allow your body to feel what your mind and soul desires.

Never underestimate the power of the female. Becoming a powerful and sexual female being in control of successful, intelligent men (and women), is incredibly satisfying for me. Being a woman with such immense power comes an equal measure of responsibility. Neither are taken lightly and it takes strength from both sides of the coin to make this work. I appreciate the strength it takes to be able to serve from within. I respect you for supporting my power over you; without that it means nothing and you respect me for everything I do and am.

I love wearing the clothes that make me feel sexy and that optimise a woman's shape yet also create intense power. Power of the female form should never be underestimated. Similarly, wearing the highest heels not only changes my physique but mentally my perception of life. Wearing corsets to enhance the female form ensures you stay on your knees begging to serve.

Interest Itinerary

I am highly skilled and experienced in most types of BDSM play but these are the areas that I truly enjoy in training submissives and slaves:

BDSM and Femdom Education. This is my lifestyle and I can help you discover how to reach yours. I can show you how to define your interests and develop them either with me or educate your partner into the art of dominating you herself. I welcome to share my knowledge and experience in teaching your girlfriend the arts of how to take control and keep you subservient.
Bondage. With your body bound the mind is free to fly. Bondage is not just ropes, it can take the form of CBT, leather restraints, spreader bars, cling-film, body bags and my favourite, the rubber vacuum bed. Let's also not forget the power and skill of mental bondage.
Chastity Training and Key Holding. Come to me and place yourself in safe keeping, and become the property of Mistress Diva. Feel owned, enslaved and locked within a heavenly shield, only to be opened under my authority, lock and key.
Distance Training. Too far away to present yourself at my feet or perhaps you require training in my absence. To be able to serve at a competent level requires training. Only when you are well trained will I see the potential in your servitude which will determine my desire to want to own you. And that is what you really want isn't it? ...... To be owned by me.
Domestic Service. You will want to liberate my life from the mundane. You will be a self motivated and diligent person who does not need constant supervision. Domestic training will include household chores, slave Friday activities and personal attention as needed. Your reward for good service will be play time with me.
Discipline / CP - Mild to Severe including Judicial. To use discipline as a behaviour modification tool or perhaps to feel the sensation of pain through corporal punishment with the aid of spanking, paddle, crops, whips and canes. I am proficient in the use of single tails and bullwhips; which one is your poison?
Foot and Boot Fetishism. Be it foot, shoe, boot or leg worship, I adore the attention and sensuality it creates. Being massaged, rubbed, kissed, licked, sucked is sweet worship for you and a great privilege but remember the pleasure is all mine. You will not invade my perfectly formed toes for your gratitude but see that foot worship is an art. You will certainly have to earn the reward of tasting my foot flavour.
Humiliation and Mind Games. Using humiliation elevates my position over you as you take pride in foot kissing, kneeling, wearing a collar and leash. Perhaps an over the knee (OTK) spanking, face slapping, some body objectification or verbal humiliation? Verbally humiliating you has infinite possibilities; perhaps you are not worthy to be in my company; a worthless toy to be used; perhaps you have inferior genitals to abuse; or perhaps I'll make you humiliate yourself.
Feminisation and TV Education. I know what you desire and your secret is safe with me. You want to feel pretty and feminine and connect with a part of you that feels so right but to the outside world is wrong and not accepted. I will want you to feel like a woman, an experience that both enlightens and challenges. Feel at ease and comfortable in my company, lets do what girls do, chit chat over a cup of tea. Or if you want to take it to the next level lets go out and 'do lunch'!
Hypnotic Domination. To get inside your head and control you through hypnotism is a softer and perhaps more romantic method to experience my control but the effects are just as intense and overwhelming. With my seductive voice I'll step into your mind and send you on a subconscious journey to enhance and heighten those fantasies and desires.
Japanese Rope Bondage and Suspension. How wonderful to be at my mercy and to enjoy how I use the rope in a restrictive, decorative and functional arrangement. Being restrained with my ropes I love to see you as my personal piece of art at my mercy to accept what I give to you. Your immobility whilst in my presence stimulates my imagination!
Sensation Play and Torture. The list is endless, perhaps to start a hood or blindfold to help heighten the experience, then a light or heavy flogging, or a tease from my voice, a scratch from my nails, nipple manipulation, fire and ice, perhaps electro stimulation, maybe more ... a lot more, but telling you what would spoil the surprise!
Smoking Fetishism. How erotic to draw the smoke and release it in whatever manner I choose. How powerful to force the smoke into your lungs. I can be incredibly seductive when I smoke and take my time on when to release the smoke from my red lips. It pleases me to have you attend to lighting my cigarette and to accept my used ash.
Spanking and Face Slapping. A sensual way to experience touch, to feel the heat and enjoy the redness highlighting the plump cheeks enticing me to spank again! I enjoy the feelings and sensations generated from the use of my hand, in my opinion the most useful and flexible implement a dominant can have.

Please Note: I do not engage in scat play or intimate body worship. Therefore, if your fantasy is centred around and dependent upon these types of activities, you would be better off contacting someone else.

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